<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595</id><updated>2009-09-24T18:42:53.997+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Become More Confident Today</title><subtitle type='html'>Become more confident today and release yourself from negative thoughts that hold you back from being as confident and successful as you should be. 

All that's missing from becoming more confident is a positive attitude and we aim to help you change that!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>16</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-6482925126976195998</id><published>2009-05-28T16:26:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-28T16:31:29.420+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='panic disorder'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Panic Attacks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Anxiety Attack Treatment'/><title type='text'>Panic Attacks - A Review of ‘Panic Away’</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What we appreciate about Joe Barry’s ‘Panic Away’ program and in particular the One Move Technique™, is that it gives people the ability to immediately stop fearing another panic attack. And because the fear of an attack frequently is the spur that sets one off, removing the fear is a very simple yet amazingly effective way to eliminate those panic attacks…&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The technique has been developed and taught by Joe Barry, himself a former sufferer of frequent panic attacks and GAD (General Anxiety Disorder). He has developed a completely natural approach to eliminating 100% of general anxiety and panic attacks.  Although this may seem very hard to believe for someone who has had this condition for some time, this information is now available to enable people to be free from anxiety.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Important points about the Panic Away Program&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;It does not rely on outdated anxiety techniques such as ‘deep breathing’, positive affirmations, or distraction.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It takes seconds to implement wherever you are, whether at home, at work or out socializing with friends.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;This technique is not based on NLP or hypnosis. It is an advanced cognitive technique born from traditional psychology that everyone can apply regardless of how long the anxiety has been present.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;You will not be asked to follow a time consuming 30 step program that will bring only minor improvements.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;After reading and absorbing this information you will immediately have the confidence to tackle any of the big stresses you may have been putting off e.g. driving, air travel, interviews etc.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Learn more at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;Panic Away&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;em&gt;Joe Barry is an international panic disorder coach. His informative site on all issues related to panic and anxiety attacks can be found &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Testimonial:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have the panic away ebook, I am about half way through it. I guess I was looking for something to cure me from panic and anxiety all together and instantly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It didn’t do that instantly, plus I only just started reading it a week ago. It is definately helping though, the ‘one move’ method that he talks about, it does work, I felt a panic attack coming on today and I did the ‘one move’ and it went away, and has stayed away.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don’t like to recommend books like these because some of them are out there just for those people to make money, but I do recommend this one, it is very good.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;actual user review from www.uncommonforum.com&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Category: Panic Disorder, Panic Attacks &amp;amp; Anxiety Attack Treatment &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Rating: Top Rated Panic Treatment Product Available Online &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Customer Satisfaction Rating From Actual Feedback: &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;97.6%&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Website:  ‘Panic Away’ website at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;www.PanicAway.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-6482925126976195998?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/6482925126976195998/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=6482925126976195998' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6482925126976195998'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6482925126976195998'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/05/panic-attacks-review-of-panic-away.html' title='Panic Attacks - A Review of ‘Panic Away’'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-5876221774517872150</id><published>2009-05-28T16:21:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-28T16:25:44.380+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='panic disorder'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='american psychiatric association'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental disorder'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='panic away'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Joe Barry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='anxiety attacks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eliminate panic attacks'/><title type='text'>A Review of ‘Panic Away’ From Joe Barry</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;‘Panic Away’ From Joe Barry - International Panic Disorder Coach&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Category: Panic Disorder, Panic Attacks &amp;amp; Anxiety Attack Treatment &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Rating: Top Rated Panic Treatment Product Available Online &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Customer Satisfaction Rating From Actual Feedback: &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;97.6%&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Website:  ‘Panic Away’ website at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;www.PanicAway.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is our top rated Anxiety and Panic Attacks treatment program available online.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Although health professionals state that panic and anxiety attacks cannot be cured, the evidence from actual customer feedback indicates that the disorder can be managed to the extent that it is all but eliminated from your life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The most consistent theme from actual customers who use Joe Barry’s Panic Away Treatment, is that they have all suffered for a significant period of time; that they have tried many other approaches to reduce their anxiety, but that for the first time, this product has consistently removed the fear and eliminated the occurrence of panic attacks. For more customer testimonials click &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;here&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, even though these testimonials are very positive and people’s lives have been changed, you should not take away the impression that you just read the information to eliminate your panic attacks. The techniques you will be shown need to be worked at so that your responses become second nature. What customers do agree though is that the one-to-one personalized coaching program as well as detailed customer support follow up, included with your purchase for free insure that you do get the results you need.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you suffer from…&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Palpitations a pounding heart, or an accelerated heart rate&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Sweating&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Trembling or shaking&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Shortness of breath&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A choking sensation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Chest pain or discomfort&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Nausea or stomach cramps&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Derealization (a feeling of unreality)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Fear of losing control or going crazy&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Fear of dying, Numbness or a tingling sensation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Chills or hot flashes&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;(Source: American Psychiatric Association. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR) 2000 Washington, DC.)&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;…then you’ve experienced firsthand some of the possible symptoms of a panic or anxiety attack. If you are reading this page because a loved one suffers from these symptoms and you are trying to understand or help, it’s hard to appreciate what they go through.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just try to imagine what it feels like to experience one, if you can.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What we appreciate about Joe Barry’s ‘Panic Away’ program and in particular the One Move Technique™, is that it gives people the ability to immediately stop fearing another panic attack. And because the fear of an attack frequently is the spur that sets one off, removing the fear is a very simple yet amazingly effective way to eliminate those panic attacks…&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The technique has been developed and taught by Joe Barry, himself a former sufferer of frequent panic attacks and GAD (General Anxiety Disorder). He has developed a completely natural approach to eliminating 100% of general anxiety and panic attacks.  Although this may seem very hard to believe for someone who has had this condition for some time, this information is now available to enable people to be free from anxiety.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;Panic Away&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Joe Barry is an international panic disorder coach. His informative site on all issues related to panic and anxiety attacks can be found &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Category: Panic Disorder, Panic Attacks &amp;amp; Anxiety Attack Treatment &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Rating: Top Rated Panic Treatment Product Available Online &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Customer Satisfaction Rating From Actual Feedback: &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;97.6%&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Product Website:  ‘Panic Away’ website at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;www.PanicAway.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-5876221774517872150?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/5876221774517872150/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=5876221774517872150' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/5876221774517872150'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/5876221774517872150'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/05/review-of-panic-away-from-joe-barry.html' title='A Review of ‘Panic Away’ From Joe Barry'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-6743788743949497902</id><published>2009-05-28T16:16:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-28T16:21:10.406+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='one move technique'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='panic away'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Joe Barry'/><title type='text'>Eliminate Anxiety And Panic Attacks</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Joe Barry&lt;/strong&gt;, the author of &lt;strong&gt;‘Panic Away’&lt;/strong&gt; is an international panic disorder coach and his ‘Panic Away’ program has the largest collection of verifiable photo and audio testimonials for any anxiety treatment program online. Joe states that if you can find any other anxiety program with a greater collection of authentic testimonials he will give you the entire course for free. And of course you are also covered by the ‘Panic Away’ risk-free 8 week guarantee!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Full information on Joe Barry’s ‘Panic Away’ program and in particular the &lt;strong&gt;One Move Technique™&lt;/strong&gt; is available at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.panicaway.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;In America, it is estimated that almost 5% of the population suffer from some form of anxiety disorder. For some, it may be the infrequent panic attacks that only crop up in particular situations-like when having to speak in front of others, while, for other people, it can be so frequent and recurring that it inhibits them from leaving their home. Frequent panic attacks often develop into what medical physicians refer to as an “anxiety disorder.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the first steps to regaining control of your life is getting helpful information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most consistent theme from actual customers who use &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Joe Barry’s Panic Away Treatment&lt;/span&gt;, is that they have all suffered for a significant period of time; that they have tried many other approaches to reduce their anxiety, but that for the first time, this product has consistently removed the fear and eliminated the occurrence of panic attacks. For more customer testimonials click &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;here&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Full information on Joe Barry’s ‘Panic Away’ program and in particular the &lt;strong&gt;One Move Technique™&lt;/strong&gt; is available at &lt;a href="http://80d544cqu91ehu0kn8m4iippfa.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WAHM" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.panicaway.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-6743788743949497902?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/6743788743949497902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=6743788743949497902' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6743788743949497902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6743788743949497902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/05/eliminate-anxiety-and-panic-attacks.html' title='Eliminate Anxiety And Panic Attacks'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-8297335121277883795</id><published>2009-05-15T11:06:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-15T11:07:11.881+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weight loss'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eliminate panic attacks'/><title type='text'>Weight &amp; Health Management</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://wahm-info.com/"target="_blank"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Weight And Health Management&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; at WAHM-Info.com is a magazine for people concerned about their health. It is packed full of useful reviews and information about weight loss and health management products and programs plus how to eliminate anxiety and panic attacks.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-8297335121277883795?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/8297335121277883795/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=8297335121277883795' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/8297335121277883795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/8297335121277883795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/05/weight-health-management.html' title='Weight &amp;amp; Health Management'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-2436607979400472707</id><published>2009-05-06T09:33:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T09:34:35.172+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='people search'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reverse phone'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='find out about people'/><title type='text'>How To Find Out About People</title><content type='html'>You may think you know someone well, but do you really know all you need to know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before you get involved with someone, whether it's a personal relationship, a business agreement or an employment arrangement are you sure you know enough to be confident about that person?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have any any doubts about someone, you owe it to yourself to either erase your doubts or confirm your suspicions. And nowadays it is easy to do it discreetly. Information is available that you can access immediately and lay your concerns to rest, once and for all. The small cost involved is as nothing compared to making the wrong decision about a person that could have costly consequences for you, your relationships or your business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So if you're looking for someone or need background information about somebody you can access these records: Background check | People trace | Reverse phone | Criminal Records | Marriage / Divorce | Sex Offender | Birth Records and &lt;a href="http://www.howtofindoutabout.com/"target="_blank"&gt;&lt;b&gt;How To Find Out About People&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-2436607979400472707?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/2436607979400472707/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=2436607979400472707' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/2436607979400472707'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/2436607979400472707'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/05/how-to-find-out-about-people.html' title='How To Find Out About People'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-6651533069726999305</id><published>2009-03-02T10:18:00.002Z</published><updated>2009-03-02T10:25:32.033Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='getting command'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='taking control'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confidence'/><title type='text'>Taking Control of Every Situation</title><content type='html'>Like it or not, we are all gladiators. We go to sleep and wake up in a social arena from which there is no escape. Challenge upon challenge confronts us, walls restrain us, and a mob of spectators mocks, sneers, or cheers us. Each and every day brings new battles whether we want them or not and whether we're up to them or not. Life forces us to face one skirmish after another - no choice in the matter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What we can choose, though, is which kind of gladiator to be, victor or victim.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being a victim in this social arena translates into having bad relationships.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most people are victims - victims of their own perceptions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's because people don't develop and listen to their own unique, authentic self. Rather they allow their mental spectators - those little tyrants rattling around in their heads - to tell them second by second how to fight their battles, what they can and cannot do. These tyrants applaud and they hiss, they encourage and they discourage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These mental spectators are the memories of the judgments of real-life people. For example, it's the memory of your aunt saying, "I hope you marry someone rich, because you're not going far on brains." It's the echo of your father growling, "You've got a back problem - no spine."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And their influence over your relationships can't be overestimated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Millions of people accept the judgments of their mental spectators as the truth and, therefore, the mediocre results that come from believing those judgments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With so many people living this way, the question becomes, is this the way I have to live? Fortunately, the answer is not unless you want to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you identify your mental spectators - and your interactions with them - you can move beyond victim and assume the role of victor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What it takes are eight steps for getting command, eight steps you can apply to most any situation you want altered. You can positively influence your relationships, your employment options, any aspect of your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's look at the steps.  &lt;a href="http://www.your-motivation.com/25881.php"&gt;Read On...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-6651533069726999305?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/6651533069726999305/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=6651533069726999305' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6651533069726999305'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/6651533069726999305'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2009/03/taking-control-of-every-situation.html' title='Taking Control of Every Situation'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-7539389361505447306</id><published>2007-04-16T10:07:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-01T10:28:14.922Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>New Self-Improvement Information</title><content type='html'>We have a new ebook you'll like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find it at &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;The Power Of Positive Thinking&lt;/a&gt; Now&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-7539389361505447306?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/7539389361505447306/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=7539389361505447306' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/7539389361505447306'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/7539389361505447306'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2007/04/new-self-improvement-site.html' title='New Self-Improvement Information'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-8983183211823253236</id><published>2007-04-02T13:18:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-02T10:16:22.295Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='be more confident'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive attitude'/><title type='text'>Thinking and Positive Attitude for Powerful Self-Esteem</title><content type='html'>When you first try to tap in to the power of &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;positive thinking&lt;/a&gt;, you need to start in a small way. If you don’t believe it will work, or you're not sure, then suspend your disbelief and try to work on small changes. It’s one thing to tell yourself, “Tomorrow, when I wake up in the morning I won’t snooze several times and feel drowsy for the rest of the day,” and quite another to tell yourself, “Tomorrow, when I wake up in the morning I’ll be living in a fourteen bedroom mansion and rolling in riches.” (Unless, of course, you are in fact independently wealthy and living in a mansion at the moment; in which case you might try to think your way into ownership of a small country.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The process of making positive thinking work for you begins with breaking down your existing thought structure and creating a new &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;positive attitude&lt;/a&gt;. In order to make room for new methods and ideas, you must first rip out all the old negative thinking patterns you’ve been building throughout your life. For some, this can be a gradual process: as you witness positive thinking work for you, one small step at a time, you will slowly clear out those 'good-things-only-happen-to-other-people' thoughts and be able to cultivate the seeds of change. With each small change you will find that your &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;positive attitude&lt;/a&gt; also changes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives." - William James&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Our lives are what our thoughts make of them." - Marcus Aurelius&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's holding you back? Even those who fully embrace the theory of positive thinking may feel some qualms over entrusting their lives to mere thought. There are many possibilities that could be producing weeds  in your mental garden, and the best way to get rid of a weed is to yank it out, roots and all. How do you &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;overcome the negativity&lt;/a&gt; and lay the foundation for a healthy life outlook?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Self-Esteem, or what you privately think of yourself is the key.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For most of human existence, self-esteem was an unheard-of notion akin to the theories of those heretics who believed the world was round. The term "self-esteem" - defined by Webster’s Dictionary as "pride in oneself; self-respect" - made its way into the common public awareness during the 1960s and 1970s as a catch-all term to describe the essence of parenting problems.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The "old ways" of parenting were pronounced barbaric and damaging to the budding self-esteem of our youth, and many parents fearful of raising unhappy, ill-adjusted children took advice that led to a generation of children with high self-esteem...so high it eclipsed personal responsibility and created a "me-first" mentality. On the other hand, most of us are taught that thinking highly of ourselves is a vain, selfish and undesirable trait. Advice telling us to feel better about ourselves and occasionally put us first seems counter-intuitive at best. After all, isn’t self-love the first step on the road to Ego Central? Many people want to feel good about themselves, but guilt too often rears its ugly head and stops healthy self-esteem from developing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because of these conflicting viewpoints, self-esteem is a tricky little emotion to manipulate. It’s important to strike a balance between modesty and greed. It takes practice to convince yourself that you are a worthwhile and deserving person, while at the same time keeping in mind that you’re not the centre of the universe. Though it may sound impossible, it’s actually simple to accomplish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/positive-thinking/index.html"&gt;More...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-8983183211823253236?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/8983183211823253236/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=8983183211823253236' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/8983183211823253236'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/8983183211823253236'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2007/04/thinking-and-positive-attitude-for.html' title='Thinking and Positive Attitude for Powerful Self-Esteem'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-1735346277653696875</id><published>2007-03-14T09:50:00.000Z</published><updated>2007-03-14T09:58:11.325Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beat negative thoughts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='be confident'/><title type='text'>Free Self Improvement Audio CD Course</title><content type='html'>Do you want to get one of the most powerful self-improvement courses that has inspired millions of people around the world to be successful -- For *FREE*?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This course is one of the best self-improvement courses of all time. 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It's all genuine and &lt;br /&gt;explained at: &lt;a href="http://ycdipersonalachievement.com/amx.php?adminid=4245&amp;id=15158&amp;pid=14224"target="_new"&gt;Free CD&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-1735346277653696875?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/1735346277653696875/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=1735346277653696875' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/1735346277653696875'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/1735346277653696875'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2007/03/free-self-improvement-audio-cd-course.html' title='Free Self Improvement Audio CD Course'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-3870098671268609842</id><published>2007-02-06T10:07:00.000Z</published><updated>2007-03-14T09:49:20.415Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self-determination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confidence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive attitude'/><title type='text'>Positive Attitude Techniques Analysed.</title><content type='html'>Who Else Wants To Learn The Hidden Secrets That No One Has Been Telling You About A Better Life Through The Power Of Positive Thinking?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This Isn't Anything You've Ever Been Exposed To Before. You're About To Be Handed The Key That Unlocks The Hidden Secrets Of How To Finally Have The Life You Dream Of...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You've probably read every self help book out there and purchased loads of self improvement courses on positive thinking...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But they've always been missing something.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, you've been through the steps, said the positive statements in the mirror but they just aren't working.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's because you're missing a secret ingredient that no one has told you because they just don't know it...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You're going to learn that secret today. Click &lt;a href="http://www.your-positive-attitude.com/index.php"target="_new"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;here&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and Start The Journey.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-3870098671268609842?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/3870098671268609842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=3870098671268609842' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/3870098671268609842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/3870098671268609842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2007/02/positive-attitude-techniques-analysed.html' title='Positive Attitude Techniques Analysed.'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-116663243026515402</id><published>2006-12-20T16:33:00.000Z</published><updated>2006-12-20T16:33:50.276Z</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;It's Magic&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Magic Tricks &amp; Illusions For Great Parties or Events&lt;br&gt;By &lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Peter_Fisher"&gt;Peter Fisher&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Everyone loves magic tricks. &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember being enthralled by the colours and the music when your favourite magician was on stage. Remember being mystified by the tricks and illusions that you really thought were magic. Remember being told that all magicians were sworn to secrecy about how they performed their 'magic'?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well with the internet it's easy now to find out exactly what they did and even learn how to do it for yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can imagine being in front of an astounded audience (who can't guess how you do it) and perform those same illusions that you have seen all the famous name magicians performing time and time again. Wouldn't that be great.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is just one of my favourites that you can learn and repeat dozens of times:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Numerical Prediction&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;You produce a sealed envelope and announce that it contains a numerical prediction. Placing the envelope on the table for the moment, you hand a small piece of card and a pen to a spectator and ask them to write a number between 1 and 1000 on the card.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;This done, the first spectator hands the card and the pen to another spectator and you invite them to do the same, writing their number below the first one. This is repeated with a third spectator before the pen and card are retrieved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;The card, pen and sealed envelope are handed to a fourth spectator who is asked to total the three numbers written on the card. When he's done this he opens the sealed envelope to find that your prediction matches the total of the three numbers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;All you need to do is make sure the people you involve are seated well apart  and you have another identical card which you have already written numbers on. Then a quick replacement switch and you're a mind reader!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Peter Fisher is an expert Author and Publisher. To find out more about how you could learn magic tricks and many more go to &lt;a href="http://www.ebookdownloads.biz/Magic-Secrets.htm" target="_new" &gt;Magic Secrets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-116663243026515402?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/116663243026515402/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=116663243026515402' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/116663243026515402'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/116663243026515402'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/12/its-magic-magic-tricks-illusions-for.html' title=''/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-116307902631546976</id><published>2006-11-09T13:29:00.000Z</published><updated>2006-11-09T13:30:26.323Z</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Coaching&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everything that you wanted to know about coaching is now ready for you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life coaching, business coaching and performance coaching now has its own new site where you can find the meaning of coaching and whether it would benefit you or your business. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Help to choose a personal or business coach for performance or personal power; or even how to become a life coach or personal trainer and make your fortune. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read more about &lt;a href="http://www.definition-of-leadership.com/coaching/index.php "&gt;coaching&lt;/a&gt; at http://www.definition-of-leadership.com/coaching/index.php in conjunction with http://www.definition-of-leadership.com/index.php&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-116307902631546976?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/116307902631546976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=116307902631546976' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/116307902631546976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/116307902631546976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/11/coaching-everything-that-you-wanted-to.html' title=''/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-115745495950683385</id><published>2006-09-05T12:14:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2006-09-05T12:15:59.513+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Get the Confidence to Be Your Best</title><content type='html'>"Confidence is the number one thing that holds people back, and it can be a real block when we're looking to make changes." says Errey, "If you have a lack of confidence it runs through all parts of your life, from relationships to career to social life. A boost in confidence gives us the space to explore what works for us, and makes it okay for us to go out and try different things."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The survey showed that thirtysomethings rate themselves as 66% confident on average, and most would like to be in the 90-100% confident range. "That lack of confidence and the gap between where people find themselves today and where they want to be makes ripe ground for the quarter-life crisis," adds Errey. "It's a huge and growing problem that's now a reality for many people, but it doesn't have to be that way."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.your-positive-attitude.com/17928.php"&gt;Read More...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-115745495950683385?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/115745495950683385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=115745495950683385' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115745495950683385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115745495950683385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/09/get-confidence-to-be-your-best.html' title='Get the Confidence to Be Your Best'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-115649764220852607</id><published>2006-08-25T10:20:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2006-08-25T10:20:42.206+01:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.technorati.com/claim/byike7mst" rel="me"&gt;Technorati Profile&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-115649764220852607?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/115649764220852607/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=115649764220852607' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649764220852607'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649764220852607'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/08/technorati-profile.html' title=''/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-115649720458629743</id><published>2006-08-25T10:07:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2006-08-25T10:13:24.586+01:00</updated><title type='text'>How a Positive Attitude Will Turn Your Life Around</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Perhaps you normally consider yourself to be a generally positive person. Even so there are frequent times in our lives when our feelings well up and we get that familiar sense that our situation could be better; indeed sometimes it even reaches the point where feelings of hopelessness overtake us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You've all heard the mantra that says you can overcome these feelings just by changing your thinking, but how do you do that? How can a positive attitude turn your life around?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For most people it simply isn't that easy. The fact of the matter is that we all have times when we don't feel overflowing with positive energy or for that matter, energy of any kind. When we feel less than positive, even simple tasks can seem too much. Being told that a positive attitude will solve everything is not helpful. What you need is a technique to help you develop a positive attitude.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What we have to do then, is to get to grips with whatever is causing us to feel like this. This is the hardest part, especially when the energy levels are low anyway. If you haven't tried this approach before you must take the time to think about and meditate upon the things that are bothering you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Go somewhere quiet and peaceful. Listen to your inner voice, is there something that keeps surfacing? It will probably be a negative feeling of failure, being less than adequate, not being good enough or maybe being trapped in a situation. In doing this you start to identify the true foundation of your feelings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you get to the point of what you perceive to be the problem you can start to ask yourself questions that might lead beyond what you believe to be the cause to the true problems. Start with "what is the basis for feeling this way?" "What evidence do I have that proves I am ...?" If you don't have any evidence or if the evidence is weak you can start to rebuild these assumptions from an evidential perspective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Recording your thoughts and feeling on paper is a great help in developing more clarity. By writing down what you think, you can examine it more objectively and see the misconceptions for what they really are. A little practice with this technique will help you to discover you how a positive attitude will turn your life around.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Peter Fisher is an expert Author and Publisher of &lt;a href="http://www.your-positive-attitude.com" target="_new"&gt;Your Positive Attitude&lt;/a&gt; where you can find masses of information to help you discover how a positive attitude will turn your life around.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-115649720458629743?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/115649720458629743/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=115649720458629743' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649720458629743'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649720458629743'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/08/how-positive-attitude-will-turn-your.html' title='How a Positive Attitude Will Turn Your Life Around'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33325595.post-115649589641622837</id><published>2006-08-25T09:48:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2006-08-25T09:51:36.430+01:00</updated><title type='text'>You Can be Confident Today</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Did you know you &lt;b&gt;&lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/b&gt; have high self-confidence?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many of us don't believe that we can have self-confidence and go through life feeling that we are just 'not good enough', or worse still that we are 'impostors'. We become highly skilled at convincing ourselves that we don't really matter and that we will never amount to anything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This lack of self-confidence comes at a high price. The fact is that although many people are lacking in self-esteem and feel powerless to do anything about it, they have created the situation for themselves. This self-made poor self esteem needs to be resolved urgently; it affects emotional and physical well-being and really reduces the quality of your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here is how you can move to what I call 'Directed Self-Confidence' and to help you get started think about these questions:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;em&gt;To whom or to what are you comparing yourself?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you think you are not good enough to whom or to what are you comparing yourself?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What sort of question is that you might say. OK then I have an action for you: The next time you start to think "I'm not good enough", ask yourself: "what exactly does 'good enough' look like? "? Be specific; to what or whom, did you compare yourself when you reached the conclusion that you are not good enough?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Comparing yourself with other people is not the way forward. All you see of other people is their external facade, you have no idea what goes on in thier minds. So the next time you fall into this trap, take a deep breath and say "I will only be who I am and only compare myself to how I wish to be". I like and respect myself; I am becoming the person I want to be every day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;This is the way to 'directed self-confidence'.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you ever find yourself saying 'nobody likes me'? The feeling that everyone in the world is against you is no laughing matter, but you can get beyond that feeling too. When you meet new people do you dislike all of them or are most of them OK? Probably the latter and if so then the reverse is also likely to be true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;Most people you meet will think you're OK!&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Make it even easier by making a conscious effort to think that everyone you meet, you will like. And when you like people you tend to be liked in return. This technique of directed self-confidence rubs off on those around you and you are going to be to always meeting people who like you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;em&gt;Wouldn't it be wonderful?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you find yourself always predicting the worst possible outcome for every new situation you come up against? Are you guilty of 'awfulizing' most situations - you know how it goes: "wouldn't it be awful if..."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Next time you find yourself in this frame of mind just take a moment and try this: "wouldn't it be &lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;wonderful&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/em&gt; if..."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This approach to directed self-confidence may just free you to get on with the wonderful things in your life!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Directed Self-Confidence is something that anyone can adopt. As Shakespeare once said "Assume a virtue and it shall be yours". Self-confidence can be assured by just adopting a positive attitude and this can be life changing. If you don't feel confident at any time all you need to do is act confidently, the pretence of being confident will quickly make you feel more confident.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit my website &lt;a href="http://www.your-positive-attitude.com" target="_new"&gt;Your Positive Attitude&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/33325595-115649589641622837?l=confidence-today.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/feeds/115649589641622837/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33325595&amp;postID=115649589641622837' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649589641622837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33325595/posts/default/115649589641622837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://confidence-today.blogspot.com/2006/08/you-can-be-confident-today.html' title='You Can be Confident Today'/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10010654310239112970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10620767595878599201'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>